TGIF!!

I am without a doubt are super-duper-perr busy this month! (aha! so what am i doing here? hey.. havent you people learnt bout the productivity curve..... i am at the recharging state!was hoping the company would send me to some inspirational courses.. HAH! not in a million years.. motivate yourself dear as TIME is GOLD!!)..

i was blog hoping.. to the usual fav blogs of mine, kak d's, MM .. blogs yang make you appreciate life soo much! though i sometimes find myself arguing about their thoughts especially MM's...

kak d wrote about SAD! aha.. most anticipated word of the month!...

SAD....bereaved, bitter, blue, cheerless, dejected, depressed, desolate, despairing, despondent, disconsolate, dismal, distressed, doleful, down, forlorn, gloomy, glum, grief-stricken, heartbroken, heavy-hearted, low, lugubrious, melancholy, miserable, morbid, morose, mournful, pensive, pessimistic, regrettable, sombre, sorry, sorrowful, troubled, unhappy, wistful, woebegone..

i am without a doubt are very sad for the things had happened lately, but atleast... it makes you realise about the bigger picture and what have been left out... ahaks, i was having a discusssion with baby last two nites.. yup.. i should be 'angried' by certain people! that is without a doubt like what baby always told me.. its true! bitter but true.. .. and yes .. i have to admit it.. but that doesnt include TEBOTW rights...

.. no matter how much u knew about a person darkest secret it'll remain a secret... not because it cant be told... but no one cares if its been told! every little thing will be denied! and you'll end up looking like a very envy person! huh.. dia dengki jer tuh! ahaks .. so at the end why bother.. when at first it seems to be a very honourable things to do to a friend.. it will always ended in such a catasthrophic manner! if telling a secret to someone just to have that someone to be blamed for later in life.. then i think - this bonding-ice-breaking activity should not be excercise by a human being at all! because secrets are not meant to be tell... ahaks!

should a person feels appreciated if people come and share their feelings and thoughts?CERTAINLY NO! it'll be lifelong burden! (anyhoo there's rules and regulations to be symphaty and emphaty!)
but dont get me wrong!... when the person meant soo dearly to you.. it is such and honourable deed to do.. take me for instant! i will try to share everything with baby... and i want him to make me his pillar of strength...

owkay back to my main SAD story...Some people feel sad when they are weighed down by something in the past or present time, while others feel sad when anxious of their future. Regardless of what the source of your sadness may be, the idea is to not let it get to you.

kak d said...fill the heart with all of the opposite: feeling of gladness (syukr), joy, optimism and carefree. 'Aaidh Abdullah al-Qarni (2003)suggests keeping oneself active doing good deeds because "idleness is destructive". .. I am surely in the opposite mode of idle...

anyway, i am at my working mode back! need to settle few things for my boss to look at! maybe.. and maybe i have to come to work tomorow!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! before making my way to JB for nik's wedding! last but not least...



Jika bersedih

Panggillah jiwamu dengan harapan sebagai janji

Karena kebaikan bagi jiwa adalah janji

Jadikan harapanmu menjadi perisai atas serangan putus asamu

Hingga waktu akan menghapus kesedihan itu

Tutuplah dirimu terhadap orang yang sering duduk bersamamu

Karena mereka selalu iri dan mendengki

Tak usah khawatirkan akan terjadi sesuatu

Sebab itu akan membuat orang yang hidup mati sebelum kematian itu sendiri

Kesedihan itu tidak akan abadi

Seperti juga kesenangan juga tidak akan lestari

Kalau saja bukan karena hal yang memengaruhi jiwa

Pasti tak ada kehidupan yang lurus bagi orang yang terjaga

(la tahzan, DR. ‘Aidh al Qarni)