Inlaws bylaws

'Never rely in the glory of a morning sun or the smiles of your inlaws'- japanese proverb

I've come across an entry written by 'perempuanjomblo' not long ago about inlaws. I would not agree more with her entry.

You are fine as long as you are within the boundary of 'what is expected - dont do more than that'.. I think i have cross the line once or twice.. At this moment.. My admiration goes to my bro-in law wife.. She couldnt give a damn about my inlaws n live by her own rule.. Which she always like to call herself taknak hypocrite.. Hahaha so here are some tips to those who are getting married or planning to find a different entity other than your family to get stuck to for the rest of your life ( unless you get divorced before you have any offsprings.. In my case that would be too late.. They are now my childrens family too.. Sigh hahaha)

Rules with your inlaws
1. Keep quite and nod and laugh when you need to.
2. NEVER complain about your other half.. Even if you think that is the best thing to do rather than embarrassing your other half to your family. Some family dont appreciate people telling bad stuff about their member of the unit (unit - family)
3. If you want to complain do it once.. Dont repeat for the second time or worst third.. Hahaha they will tell you that they are tired of hearing the complain (ni piagam keluarga... Aduan cuma sekali.. Lain2 aduan selepas itu tidak akan dilayan)
4. I think PJ kata never be yourself.. Your family can accept who you are but not the inlaws. Remember.. They are above all... Keep quite and carry on.. Simpan perangai tak berapa nak senonoh dgn kuarga sendiri.. As what they say.. You cant choose your family, but your inlaws do.. They can always ask you to leave the family. They have survived as a unit before, and they can always survived it is.
5. Respect them love them but dont expect more out of them.

Anyway, just live your live and remember that one day you'll be an inlaws to. Tour husband is your family but not your inlaws. They are your inlaws. Unless you are a princess of brunei no inlaws would embrace you like their own.. Its just myth. But nevertheless.. You'll get showered with the love they have for their son/daughter. The last rule are.. Just enjoy being and inlaws.. You'll survived. I have. Hihi

Planning

There's too many things to plan. Starting with the upcoming baby. Oh oh pening planning.

Less panicking but i still feel nervous nonetheless. The thoughts of giving birth without an ob is 'urgh'. But i guess org dulu ok je beranak pakai bidan.

Here in th uk still pakai mak bidan.. Ongn cuma akan take over bila ada complication je. Anyway... Semoga Allah lindungi kami sekeluarga. I'm dozing off...

Toodleloo

Night owl

Tossing n turning on my bed.. Thinking of getting back to sleep is annoying..

:)

Alhamdulillah.. My early morning sickness has subdued. Third trimester is just around the corner, that means baby items, hospital bag.. Etc etc.. And LABOr!!

Ok! Nervous!

:p

What to do?.. Mari bgn solat kikikikiki

Kbai!

The return of the demented penguin

Yes! The demented penguin is back! Hihihi alhamdulillah the incredible mr.K will be abang in few months time.

How was the pregnancy so far? Quite different from the first one. Was sick all the way to 2nd trimester. Not enjoying it at all.. With mr.K tagging along like my own shadow mengalahkn saka budak kecik ni.. Followed me everywhere i go.. Everything serms crowded! Sian mr.K.

Not eating well. Dont have the appetite plus not gaining weight, aisehhh pity pity little baby. Mummy promise mkn byk dikit k little baby.

Anyway... I'll keep you people posted.. Right now nk survey diaper bags. Hiksss.

Oh oh.. Its freezin here!!!

Hello 2013

:) as i bade goodbye to 2012 at 8 pm .. Hahaha doesnt even bother to stay up late n count the hours.. I welcome 2013 with loads of hope n doa for all the good things for my family.

New year resolution?

Hmmm.. To be more attentive. :) to be passionate.. And to be consistent.

I have one particular aim this year and i really hope the plan will be materialised. Insyallah.

Kaliq is 20 months today n i am the happiest mom ever! Hhihihihi

And i m trying to be a good wife.. Yg tak melawan ckp suami miahahahaha i love u babe.. Forever n ever.

:)

Travelling tots

:) hihihi sapa yg selalu travel with kids mesti suka mende ni...

Trunkie.. Can be ride on senang nak heret mr. Kaliq kat airport hihihi... Teringin nak beli mende ni dah lama..firt time i saw the trunkie masa kat dubai airport.. Hihihi ada lelaki ni travel berdua with his toddler son.. Mcm best je dia duk trik anak sana sini.. Nk beli time tu si kaliq br berapa bulan.. Mau terholek budak mok tu kalau letak dia atas trunkie.. Skrg dia dah 20 bulan n he is capable of sitting comfortably n confidently atas mende bergerak and Since kitorg selalu travel.. I think its a high time to buy..Skrg tgh boxing day i grab the chance to buy the trunkie at cheaper price

Anyway.. Ada sesapa nak pesan? These whole set.. Is for rm225... Harga dia kat pasaran about £80 dlm rm400 so kire2 mmg untug kot.. Email me kalau nk atau leave a comment.

There's 6 item altogether

Surirumah

I am a surirumah.. Berijazah.. Tapi tak sepenuh masa.. Hihihi

Something wrong with women nowadays.. Semua benda nak bikin panas.. Dr hal breastfeeding sampai lah ke hal surirumah berijazah sepenuh masa... :) pelik bila baca forum2 ibu ni ...

Jadi je la. tak payah nk pikir penat3 org pikir apa.. Seriously i dont think surirumah separuh masa berijazah ada masa nak mengata kecuali merintih betapa bertuahnya mereka2 yg takyah gi keje.. Kenapa perlukan acknowledgement.. Kalau ikhlas.. :) kalau rasa tak berapa nak ikhlas baik takyah jadi surirumah sepenuh masa n being skeptic... Lagi satu duk sebut susahnya jadi fully breast feed mom leceh la.. Apa la byk berkorban la.. Kekekek mulut pokppek.. Sampai lah turun masuk ke perut anak jadi darah daging.. Sambung jadi generasi pokpek pokpek..

Tak paham rasa.. Kata duk ikut sunnah mcm2.. Tp bila baca forum ibu3 menyusu ni.. Segala bahasa mencarut n kasar ada... Kekekke bagi fully breastmilk to ur children tak buat seseorg tu maksum.. Jaga mulut jaga perkataan.. Taulah hebat ikut yg disarankan agama

Tapi lebih baik jd yg berbudi pekerti yang zuhud yg tidak memandang rendah atau bersangka buruk kepada org lain. Sentiasa bersangka baik.. Perempuan tak elok mencarut.. Tak molek.. Tak payah nak berbahasa kasar.. Insyallah anak2 mesti ikut kalau tak semua mesti ada sikit2...

I am a woman and so do you.

Dah autumn

Boys are coming home really soon. :) counting daysssssss

Life and everything around it

Things do happened for a reason and as a muslim accepting things as qada and qadar is one of the six pillar of imaan. :)

I accept the fact that my father in law had passed away, in the same month i lost my doc. I will missed both of them very dearly.. And btw.. At the same month i lost my nenek. October is tragic. But no months or day is damned. I just needed reconciliation towards the lost and lets justify that october is a sad month for me.

Hub and mr.k is away in malaysia. And will only be back in november which leaves me alone. In this house. (Not safe telling you are alone ek?) .. The house is safe with all the security stuff.. Insyallah.

Mr. K is already walking i missed watching him walking around the house.. Bit clumsy here and there.

Miss my hubs too much. Distant makes your heart grew fonder? You betcha!

I feel like taking a walk at the park.. But hmmm dont really feel like it.. :)

And the idea of me time for some woman is crazy. I always thought that there is always a me time.. But noooooo no such thing as me time. When all the time you cant stop thinking of your live ones.

That is all fir now. Missing my 3/4 self.

Balik cepat sayangs.

Rindu

I missed my babies. It is very difficult to live without my r and k. I miss them in every heartbeat.

24 days to go.

Me! Me! Me!

Sometimes i just do the silent top of the lung screaming... Whenever gpod or bad thoughts cross my mind.

Who wants a million dollar.. Answer silently.. Me! Me! Me!

Who wants a luxury vacation at the aspen.. Again silently.. Me! Me! Me!

Who wants to go home and sleep?? Me! Me! Me!

Ok dah bye.

Tefal! Tefal! Rm290 aje 5 piece made in france

I am sending home extra tefal delight set (2 boxes) . Made in France

Original price is rm450 ++. I am selling at RM 290.

Email me at baby.dinasour@yahoo.co.uk kalau nak chop. Expected to arrive in 10-12 weeks but usually 8 weeks je. Utk slmt lets make it that way.

RM 290
5 pieces/ tefal delight made in france

ok slap me in the face!

Sorry dear and dear.. i forgot my password.. then i forgot to read all the comment... SIBUKKKKKK!!! but that is not a reason kan? kan?
goshhh.. saya mintak maaf.. baik takyah tulis blog kan? kekekekke kalau taknak jawab soalan org... but i am truly2 busy.
anyway.. let me sum up few commen answer here...


N.D said...

hi madam,sorry to randomly bother,might need ur help,do u still have the MBSA banquet's map?

if yes,can u help email me?urgently need it for wedding card. :D

- DEAR... map tu kalau u gi my entry on the dewan MBSA mmg dah ada map... boleh pakai yg itu ... :)





"What's wrong talking about cooking and babies?"

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Alia Hassan said...
salam sis... im interested your post http://miszdior.blogspot.com/2012/02/tefal-supra-7-piece-cookware-set-rm400.html this cookware still available or not? could u plz email me for more info. my email ora_gemini87@yahoo.com thanks a lot sis <3>

DEAR...
sorry dah habes dijual agak lama dulu.. but i am sending more tefals home... tunggu my entry ok


indah said...

salam sis.
email saya detail medela freestyle rm1250 ..


email: nuarindah00@yahoo.com
thank you.

Dear - yg RM1250 dah habes.. skrg tak sale lagi... paling murah leh dapat plus postage dlm RM1750... which i rasa kat malaysia lebih kurang kot eik??? kan? sorry.. i just read your comment.


Now ada yang tanya pasal DEWAN MBSA..
masa kita sewa... dapat dewan n kerusi meja.. and PA system. BASIC. takde lapik2... :( as far as i remember)...



:) anyway. if you have any question... boleh je email ke baby.dinasour@yahoo.co.uk ... kalau2 rasa urgent nak tanya anything.. ok lovelies.... itu aje!!!

Eh dah raya?

While i was adamant that i will definitely make up for all the missed entries and all... The fact that time is running faster and loads of things to do ( alasan terbaik cik temah buat masa ni) abd the fact that i dint really stayed up anymore. Has brought little life to this inhabitable-blog-state

Nevertheless.. Selamat hari raya everyone!

Salam ramadhan everyone,

I know its already the second half of ramadhan.. But hey its never too late for anything good kan? Anyway... Ramadhan in glasgow is looong!!! I mean veryyyy extremely long compared to malaysia. 1 2 3!! Nangisssss

As usual this is my fourth ramadhan as a wife n the second as a mother... Phewwwew its tiring... But alhamdulillah :) still surviving.

Oh no!!! Kaliq dah panggil. Toddle loo!! :)

Janji nak revamp... Tp nntlah still tak sempat

;) rupanya its not easy jadi ibu yg bekerja... Dlm kepala otak asyik pk si bulat sorang kat rumah tu.. Evendo daddy day care but still... I want to be with my bebeh. Think about him all the time ( eceh sudah mcm lirik lagu).

Yg susahnya saya bukan pekeja separuh skilled...bukan kerja isi borang or buat kerja kerja routine... Setiap study walaupun identical pada asasnya tapi semua madalah is localised... Makanye mmg kene kerja hard and smart. Dulu satu project 3 bulan... Skrg ni ha hamek ko... Satu project 3 minggu 4 minggu tops.. Duhh ok 123 nangis.

So nak develop professionalism in terms of work and private life is definitely bluerghhhh...Bagaimana menjadi ibu yg professional... Rumah tiptop!! Kerja and knowledge pon tiptop... Kadang2 ada jugak rasa nak memybah bumi. Kain baju dah setinngi gunung kinabalu... Tak kira yg dah basuh or belum ... Hahahha baju mmg byk mcm artist. Demm... Ok yarik nafas tinggi2...

This blog needs a revamp!

It looks like, it belongst to one grudgy old maid!!!! I'll make it pretty i promise eceh....

So have been writing since 2006... That is somewhat old kan!!! Ok i am up and about

Its saturday!!!!!!!!!! Jom kemas rumah

How do you spent a good £24

2 pleated trouser + 10 undies + a shirt + black lycra tights + a camisole.

That is a bargain when you shop at primark. Its everybody's shop!!! :)

Anyway.. Received a good news from malaysia. My baby cousin sister had given a birth to a lovely baby boy!!! Yes another boy in the family! That brought me to this entry... Hmm a baby.. For me another baby? Am i ready for another baby? Well i am i guess... But i prefer it to be later not sooner...I'll think of it again when kaliq reached 2 years old. :).

I want kaliq to have brothers and sisters.. I want them to love each other. I want them to need each other. :) ....

Anyway i'm 32 this year... The next one shall he when i'm 34... Then one when i'm 36 hihihi insyallah...

But what if rezeki tu kaliq sorang je? Oh oh!!!! I'll adopt i guess... :)

Hello

Seems like writing down an entry us somewhat difficult. :) anyway.. Its friday... Is it just me? Or do you guys feel it too? Time really flies nowadays.

Anyway, ramadhan is near and i still have last year fasting to do! Summer! And fasting adoiiii nangis!!!!

I have many things in my mind right now.. Contemplating on many things too. Haih.

Wet summer

Ok. Rain rain go away kaliq wanna play.